When I was younger I’d often make decisions in the moment that I figured future-me could pay for. Whether that was overspending my food budget a few days early, or using some of my student loan money that I could have paid back immediately. I figured I’d enjoy it now and future-me could figure it out.
What I was doing was building up a hefty burden for that future version of myself. When future-me became present-me, present-me was pretty pissed at past-me.
This should probably come after number three but the idea is simple enough, essentially it’s a reframing: think of what you can do today for the benefit of future you.
Even if it’s as simple as thinking “I’m going to put this laundry away now so tomorrow I can get a quicker start to the day,” it will do the trick. Or if we’re in keeping with the financial decisions, “I’ll pass on this splurge tonight so I can enjoy a few more meals with friends later in the month.”
We have to do chores no matter what, but thinking about how doing them now might save our future-selves stress, time, or a little bit of clutter can really impact how we see ourselves. By being considerate of my future-self, my relationship with myself improves. I feel loved and cared for. It increases a sense of trust and stability within my own tiny home.
Simple trick really, but I’ve found it has a big impact.
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